My support system

Today is a really big milestone for me. It is my 10th wedding anniversary. As most people that are reading this know, I have never done anything for a solid 10 years. I never lived in the same house for 10 years, not even growing up; heck I never lived with the same person for 10 years straight. So for me this is truly an amazing event. This exciting day has gotten me thinking of my support system. One thing that has really been emphasized to me throughout my journey this far is having a really sturdy support system.

My Support

I have to say that I am very lucky, I have found an overwhelming amount of support; from my friends, family and coworkers. I was worried about telling people that I was thinking about bariatric surgery. I was concerned about telling my family. I didn't want anyone to think that I was weak and not able to accomplish this on my own. My weight has been a topic of discussion between myself and members of my family for some time now. I think that I projected my own feeling of not being strong enough to lose the weight by diet and exercise onto what other people thought of me.

My husband has been my biggest supporter. He is a rock for me to lean on when I do not have the strength. He has always told me that I am perfect in his eyes. I only wish I could see myself the way he sees me. I have to say that when he realized how I saw myself he wanted to do everything to make me see myself the way he saw me. He wants me to be happy and if this will make me happy he was willing to support me. He still tells me I am perfect to him.

I also have a unique experience in that so many people in my life have had bariatric surgery. Two of my biggest sources of inspirations, information and support come from Tracy and Kellie. They are friends and more. Cameron works with Tracy and Kellie is my boss.  I got to know Tracy when she and Cameron became friends at the sheriff’s office. She is truly a one of a kind person. She tells it like it is and would give the shirt off her back to anyone in need. She had gb surgery about 2 years ago. She has been open and honest with me about the whole process. Kellie, who happens to be Tracy sister, is also a great support. She had gb about 6 months before Tracy did. The honest information that the two have shared with me has helped me to make an informed decision. I know that I can go to them with any question and they will give me an honest and straightforward answer. I am very lucky to have them in my life. My support system is really great.

Next Steps

I have also reached the next step in the long process toward my surgery. I received cardiac clearance yesterday. I am now waiting for insurance approval.